User blog comment:Sophia McLaren-Cobb/When the grenade hits the floor.../@comment-5879271-20161017175344

Well. I feel like this blog was kind of vague and unvlear, but what can you do?

I do not universally trust people in positions of authority, but until they give me a legitimate reason to mistrust them I'm really not going to make any problems. All I'll say is...make sure your reasons are legitimate and not the result of being butthurt or jealous before you act. I've made the mistake of not doing so before, and honestly it's petty and pathetic.

I, for one, trust Ck a whole lot. (Not gonna lie, I was suspicious of her when she first became part of the admin team, but she's proven to me my skepticism was unnecessary.) Her decisions are well-considered and even when I disagree I know both our positions are valid. She is always as fair and reasonable as she can be when it comes to wiki-related decisions and I've never been given reason to think her decisions as a GM were biased, even when things did not go my way. Give the woman a fricking cookie, please.

Have you ever considered that Ck doesn't trust us because we pull sh!t like this? My god. Have you ever tried to manage a situation where people are constantly telling you you messed up or played foavorites or whatever the hell else? I'd quit too. We're not worth anyone's best effort when we do these things.

And poor NAP. Perf trued to make the best of a really sh!itty situation and while I would have gone about it in a very different fashion, I really don't blame her.

Bullying is saying things that hurt without care for a person's feelings. If I tell you you look like shit, it doesn't matter if I intended to bully you or not. Unless we're bros who say those kinds of things to eachother as jokes, that's bullying.

Harassment is, for example, pushing something until there's really only one option left. Asking or hinting at something until you get what you want is harassment.

Also, doors? The only thing the admin team hides is expansions. If you want to know how someone GMs, just ask. I did, and I got an answer with no issues.

A revolution? You guys know that if something is wrong, I'm going to complain. I have. Many times. The issues we have are logistical and isolated. There is no great corruption, at least not in the admin team.

Please just sit the f*ck down.