User blog:Hawkheart33/The strange dreams

''Darling, if you know what the problem is, then why aren't you fixing it? ''

My name is Ashley, and apparently I am told that I give great advice on relationships even though I can be very confused in my own...

Dear Ashley,

I am 19 yrs old and have been in 2 relationships, the 1st one I survived till 7 months before he decided to break up with m'''e because I was "Too clingy" When honestly I recall...it was him who was becoming clingy. I was never important, he constantly ignored me to play video games unless he needed me. I would have dumped him *cough*after my birthday of course*cough* but he dumped me three days before...Now I am in a wonderful relationship for 2 months, and enjoying how he treats me. I feel important and love it when he's around always making me laugh, which are very important to girls/women, Are you listening men?! Recently though, I've been feeling like he's distant and doesn't text me as often, I had to confront this issue or else it would continue to make me sick, (Ladies, trust your gut instincts!) when I did confront him, he said I wasn't the reason and left it at that...Now he's telling me that he'll tell me after the zoo trip, but he promised it wasn't anything about breaking up, and told me he doesn't want to fight about it just yet...Which is funny, cause I haven't blown up at him yet and he should remember that I'm not like other girls...So I guess I'll wait and find out. '''

-Confused Forever

Dearest Confused Forever,

The best advice for this issue, is to listen to your boyfriend and not to react until he is finished, letting him know you are listening to his side of the problem and that you respect him enough to listen before responding. Remember it takes a lot of guts for the guy to tell you the problem, and if you show you are willing to listen, then he will also respect you by listening and hopefully you both will resolve the issue and become stronger than ever...

My advice is not always perfect, and it's best to hear from a second opinion, but I hope that this helps you through the struggle.-Ashley