Not the time, not the place. Not even close.
Very obviously a lot of things happened between you three and that's all fine and dandy but DARP'S talkpages are not the place to hash out your fights and create new/reopen old wounds. What were you all thinking? Imagine if a newer user came on and seen the drama transpiring. They'd surely run for the hills. I know that all I could do was cringe reading it. Please do not use DARP as a place to turf out your personal wars like that ever again - especially with the kind of headers used and things said. Sorry but I really don't think that the entire situation was remotely appropriate for this site and I'm sort of miffed that it even happened here.
I understand because I've had my own temper flare quite a but back in the day. I'm doing okay - a little stressed and busy with two jobs but otherwise okay. Thanks for asking though. I appreciate when people check in. How are you?
- I've been very busy. I've worked everyday for the last 4 weeks straight and haven't had a day off. I will probably have christmas eve and the following day off but yeah. :/ and im sorry to hear that but hopefully the new year brings you some better times.
Recently, there have been concerns, both among the community and the admin team, regarding your conduct with another user. It has come to our attention that you have been involved in a relationship with an underage user, while being an adult yourself. While this relationship has ended, we still find it to be a breach of safety for our community, as we’re populated mostly by underage users. The relationship was inappropriate and something we don’t want to promote in our community. In order to appease these concerns and continue providing protection and safety for our community, the admin team has agreed that a ban from DARP is needed. The ban will be permanent starting today, December 26, 2018. We hope that you realize how serious we find this to be and that these consequences will allow you to reevaluate your actions.
Alyssa5582, Member of the Human Resources Department
You are, and always have been,my dream. I love you more than there are stars in the sky and fish in the sea. 23:13, December 26, 2018 (UTC)